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Hannah Iris's avatar

I'm here for what's true, what's honest, what's real. Because we get the rest -- everything that's not -- in nearly every other space in our lives in dominant culture. And so I'm way less interested in that the *name* is changing than I am interested in that *you're* changing, and the changing name is simply a way to be in alignment.

There's a way you could have written this essay just about the name changing that wouldn't have resonated at all. But that you're expressing this change with honest, boundaried vulnerability?! I am here for that! May we all give ourselves such grace. It's so potent.

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Hayley Speller's avatar

Love it! I’m looking forward to reading about your change when you’re ready. As always, your newsletter has arrived at the perfect time. I’ve been sitting on changes of my own, pondering if I am truly ready. Reflecting on your piece, I realise it’s not fear after all. I’m very ready, I’m just avoiding the inevitable opinions of others. I won’t be hurting them, and their opinions won’t sway me. I just don’t need to hear them, as I know the change is right for me and my family. That’s not a reason to avoid pushing on - thanks for the well-timed reminder. Take care :)

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