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Jen&Charles's avatar

Not really ban advice. But something you said made me think of a practice I use on “value vs cost” that I think everyone could try:

I don’t look at pricetags before trying things on. I’ll try on clothes and asses how much I feel the item is worth. Eg “I’d pay $100 for this dress” - I then look at the price and it $100 or less, it’s worth it to me…if more I put it back.

Same goes for other things, like Ubers - if I’m walking home and it starts raining I’ll say “I’ll take an Uber if <$10” and if it’s $12, I guess I’m getting wet.

Just a thought. At the end of the day, the price of things is not something you can control, but if it outweighs how much you value it, you’ll sleep better if you avoid the transaction.

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Leslee's avatar

I read Cait's book this past fall, just before Christmas. We had just bought a new SUV, were preparing to go on a family trip to Hawaii, and limiting Christmas presents. Her book helped me accept that our house is filled with stuff we barely use and seem to have multiple of everythin. I also realized I am a person who shows love and affection by gift giving and I was teaching this to my children.

We started our ban for 2024, so only 1 month in. Our restrictions are: get rid if excessive streaming services (we had basically evey one and only used a couple, and we're paying for some twice); no new purchases unless we needed things; no bulk purchases for groceries (we overstock our pantry and food ends up expiring); limit to $200 per week on groceries/eating out; and finally we have the goal of "purging" the house of all the things we should have gone through and/or gotten rid of years ago (the totes that haven't been opened since 2012). It's only February and we already had 1 weekend of overspending, but so far we are doing well. We stay mindful of whether we really need something, but we haven't limited ourselves to the extreme. For our area, $200 per week is tight, but definitely doable.

Our ultimate goals: save money, reduce debt, and be more comfortable with things we have.

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